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Lemon tea of the life
There is such a story: A pair of lovers quarrel in the coffee house, does not yield to each other. Then, the boy leaves away angrily, the girl friend who only leaves him weeps alone.

The girl that the lemon tea of the life unsets is stiring that cup of cool lemon tea of the front, give vent to the anger and smash fresh lemon slice not peeled in the cup with the spoon, lemon slice has already been smashed shapelessly by her, tea in the cup smells of the bitter bad smell of a lemon peel too.

The girl calls a waiter, demand to change a cup and peel tea that the leather lemon steeped off.

The waiter has looked at girls, has not spoken, take tea that that cup has been already stired very muddily by her away, bring in a cup of icy lemon tea again, just, the lemon in tea is with peel.

The girl who originally feels blue is more angry, she also calls a waiter, “have I said, the lemon in tea should be peeled, have not you heard? ” She is reprimanding a waiter.

The waiter is looking at her, his eyes are limpid and bright, ” Miss, please don’t worry, ” He says ” whether you know, the lemon peel is after fully soaking, its bitter flavor is dissolved in the tea, it will be a kind of taste of fresh and cool sweet Lie, is exactly the present what you need. So is don’t be impetuous, do not want to push all of perfume of the lemon out within three minutes, will only stir tea very stupidly so, mess around with the thing. ”

The girl is distracted, there is a kind of feeling touched in the heart, she looks at the waiter’s eyes, asked: “Then, how long could does it take to bring the perfume of the lemon into full play? ”

The waiter has smiled: “12 hours. Lemon can come out by release quintessence of life in the 12 hour, you can get one cup delicious lemon tea to reach ultimate attainment, but you demand the standing and waiting of 12 hours. ”

Waiter, say again: “In fact not only make tea, any trouble in the life, so long as you are willing to pay for 12 hours to stand and wait, will find, the thing is not as terrible as what you imagined. ”

The girl is looking at him, ” what are you hinting me? ”

The waiter smiles: “I am just teaching you how to steep and make lemon tea, discuss with you whether can steep the life making delicious food out too by method of making tea at will. ”

The waiter bows, leave away.

The girl faces a cup of lemon tea to ponder silently.

The girl starts to steep and make a cup of lemon tea by oneself after coming back home, it was round and thin and small that she cut the lemon, put into tea.

The girl is looking at lemon one in the cup silently, she sees they are breathing, their every cell is opened, sparkling and crystal-clear and close drop of water condense. She has been moved, she has felt life and soul of the lemon sublimate slowly, release slowly. After the 12 hour, she taste she never drink most splendid, delicious lemon tea most ever since one’s birth.

The girl has understood, this is because the soul of the lemon is totally deepened into it, there is perfect flavour.

Doorbell sound, girl open, see boy stand outside door, in one’s arms heavy to hold rose to be delicate and charming.

“Is that all right to forgive me? ” He asks slowly and slowly.

The girl has smiled, she draws him, a cup of lemon tea is put in front of him.

” let us have one to agree on, ” The girl says: “Later, no matter it is worried how much is met, we mustn’t lose the temper, calm down to think about this cup of lemon tea. ”

“Why think of the lemon tea. ” The boy is puzzled puzzledly.

“Because we need to wait patiently for 12 hours. ”

Later, the girl applied the secret of the lemon tea to each aspect in her life, her life is but happy, vivid and beautiful.

The girl is tasting the wonderful flavour of the lemon tea quietly, is tasting the wonderful flavour of the life.

Remember that waiter’s words: “If you want to push all of flavour of the lemon out within three minutes, will make tea very bitter, stir it very stupidly. ”

Life such as tea, slowly, detailed detailed product, flavour is infinite.

However, can’t wait for a long time either. The bubbles of tea are for a long time, unable to leave and swallow; The life waits for a long time, cool and tasteless.

What the woman wants is sense of safety
The men do not understand a thing frequently, what the woman wants is sense of safety, so being willing to follow you, she do washing, cook for you, keep at your side from abandon all one’s life. However, the nihility very much on earth of sense of safety is misty.

What the woman wants is sense of safety may much men will be gloomy – -Why do I know how she has sense of safety? Especially present city women, see too much separation and reunion, sense of safety seems to become the luxury goods. A woman’s happy sense is often linked to with sense of safety. So, a man, if you can let the other side have sense of safety, then your emotion succeeds more than half.

Know how to respect the wife

It had better encourage her to develop one’s own speciality to interfere the other side’s choice too much, because everybody is the same, if it was the thing that oneself does not like that made, can passionate and energy, you think well, she may not it thinks to be most suitable a one’s own one. An important standard of the modern good man’s is, respect all women, including the person who only have met only once.

Warm limbs keep in touch

Why do the women all like holding the man’s hands? Because is so intimate, let people feel steady and sure. People actually have a contact desire of the body, the men and women are all the same. Centre of the palm, hold in the arms the warm,making woman have neither the with deep impression nor the far most until what diamond can have remembered all one’s life. She generally while remembering you, arms to remember you mostly, so don’t grudge, embrace with 10 meaning, paying, twining.

The one in right time inquires after one’s well-being

Care for each woman and is fallen very much, but excessive care will only make her pestered beyond endurance. It is in she the worried you can serve as by role of garbage bin carefully with. What the woman needs sometimes, just a target that can tell, released out after finishing saying, might not require the result. Try hard to remember the name of friend that she and you have proposed, when she meets the predicament, offer the best suggestion that you can think of.

Let her friends of family all appreciate you

The elders are really terrible, eyes are extremely malicious, if you can gain the appreciating of her family, friend, get through half. Because the women are usually all influenced by the person around very easily, there are persons who appreciates you, you will get a lot to help on a lot of things.

Try hard to accomplish broadmindedly, tolerantly

Though because a lot of men are originally the small sun at home now, everything requires the justice, however, the woman needs to coax on earth, so is don’t be too impulsive, if does not involve the principle, give in first, only let your contradiction be getting gentle, two talents can cool down, seek another solution.

Treat the other side’s pet kindly

The women all think, like the man of the little animal to be good-natured, can look after the good pet, will look after one’s own family well too certainly. If you do not like the little animal at all, but you don’t behave too obviously either, can tell her, your irritated reason to hair is accepted more easily in a mild and indirect and warm way.

There should be sport hobbies

The man with a certain sport hobby, find the export of mood more easily, you let her feel that and a man who there is enthusiasm in the heart is together, will let her cover with confidence life. I think, none of women like and only like drinking the man that vent on and live all day.

Let her think that it is safe to pour out to you

If a woman can communicate with you frankly and sincerely, proves you have certain status in her mind. But you had better understand when should speak, when should shut up. Don’t fear to express, can be by sharing your feeling and idea with her appropriately, in this way she will think you stand in this side of hers, heart will depend on you further. Let her believe firmly, you will not laugh at her because she express the heart idea.

Boundary of finding out and women friend

No matter men and women, should have one’s own friend circle, play with ambiguous man must to let woman hate most. If you are too shy to refuse to other women, then, she will not refuse you regrettably at all sooner or later. Might as well it says to be Vanity, have sense of safety, in a word, they hope one’s own man can appear within the range of in one’s own sight, hearing all the time. Who the friend that you can let her know you come and go is, but you can communicate well in advance, everybody can give the other side space each other on the basis of believing in. When being appropriate, give a happy words, frequently, the woman receives your ways to do things.

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